Thursday, December 15, 2011

Likes/Dislikes

I like when someone is honest with you and tells you the truth
But I dislike it when someone makes a choice for you because they think they are not good enough for you, or they think they cannot change
I like knowing I can tell you anything and you will just sit there and listen
I dislike knowing that we don't hang as much, you don't call, and it makes me feel like maybe we arent as good friends as I thought
I like having people to hang with chat with, and just chill with, knowing it will be just a friendship
But I dislike having to do all the work, and in the end, feeling like I am the only one putting in the effort to care, I am wondering now, do you care at all?
I like having people to share and discuss important things with because I care about topics and find it hard to keep it to my self most of the time
I dislike having friends who just want to be your friend because you come from a good family, yet they just use you for the wrong reasons, been there, done that
I like meeting new people, hearing new thoughts, discussing views and understanding why people think that way that they think
I dislike being mislead, and not being told the whole truth because you are afraid to hurt me, I can handle myself
I like knowing people trust me because I work hard, and know that I am loyal to my friends
I dislike being ignored
I like being around people, who doesn't?

Signed:
TheFabChick

Monday, December 5, 2011

SadSong

It's another sad song
Another sad tale
Another child following the beat of another heart
All because she doesn't fit in, she hasn't found her story yet
It's another song
Another sad song
She's isn't like the others, her story, it doesn't stand out
You see, she's tried to fit in
But the girls just laugh
It's not the first time we've heard this story
The pressure to fit in, to be yourself and still be liked
We all wanted to be with the cool group
I know I did, but I learned they weren't worth it
Not everyone is so fortunate, not everyone comes from home with two parents that say I love you
We would risk our lunch money, we'd risk our health
We'd risk our personality to be just like her
Just like them
The pressures to fit in, spread like a disease
One that is next to impossible to end
It starts in the home
When the parent decides to stop parenting
Or doesn't ask her child
Why are you dressed like that?
Daughter says, "All the girls at school do it, its the new thing"
Mother tries to explain that it won't do anything but harm her beliefs and values
It's another sad songShe tries to fit in
But none of what she is doing seems to be working
So she tries something else
She meets him
Girls talk about girls who know lots of guys
But she is unaware that this is not always a good thing
She starts chatting him up
But he's not interested
"I don't play like that" he says
"Your a guy" she points out
And with that, he gets up and walks out
Leaving the sad song on the table
Nobody to pick it up
Nobody to read it and correct the mistakes
She just sits there
She can feel the stares, hear the whispers
Sad song only whispered because nobody dares to sing her song out loud
Sad song, sad song
She tried but sad songs are out of style
Either you know who you are, and can handle your beat
Or you will get picked up and thrown out
Because nobody likes a copy
Stick to being you
Trust me, I know how it feels to be a sad song, but now I have my own song
And I have no problem singing it loud, because I learned to be me


Signed:
TheFabChick

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Be

Never settle for less
Fight for the best
We already know to meet a man who isn't penniless
I'm not saying be a golddigger
But just don't pick the wrong nigga
Make sure he loves you right
And fights with all his might
Sorry my rhymes seem repetitive
But it just seems like with girls, everything gets competitive
We want the same type, standards low
Doing the walk of shame opening that guys door
Don't you know?
You deserve better than what he'll give
Just remind yourself that you have one life to live
Don't choose the wrong guy
He won't love you till the end
Instead he'll just treat you like garbage
Instead be the woman who starts a new trend
Find a guy who will stand by your side
Make sure he is along for the ride
I know it is hard, but having faith keeps us strong
I know temptation is out there, but keep yourself from doing wrong
It's easy to get swayed, to lose track and disobey
But keep your heart, don't let it be shread apart
Remind him you deserve more
That you are not some cheap whore
It's not always about sex, trust, and commitment too
You have to learn the value of a real woman, that is included in the package too
She'll call you out when you make a mistake
Be willing to learn, and not show hate
Let her love you good, without it always being in bed
The one thing a woman needs is to be emotionally fed
Yeah be the one to hold her close at night
Because even though she is a grown woman
She still fears for her might
Be her man, be her friend
Prove to her for the rest of her life, that you'll be there till the end

Signed:
TheFabChick